Let leave the beauty topic and write about love. I would like to share with some little notes about the daily realtionship of my other half. Love is a big topic for psyhology and a great industry for nearly every company. Here is my list when he really into you:
- Politeness: these are little but great things, he do polite like openning the door for you, helps you to get off your coat ect.
- Repect: your feelings, thoughts on certain things.
- Do not jugde you on your way of life, feelings and emotions or on your bad habits.
- Support and stand by you, when you really need him he is there for you.
- Have aims together
- So basicly he is just really care.
Of course we have to do the same for them to be able to get our relationship works. We can do goodwill gestions or little amenities. Even a nice breakfast at home or just a simply coffee can cheer each other up. Even if you are a lady you can invite your loved one into restaurants or coffee houses. I am really hate to see some of my colleagues suffering from girlfriend/wife’s (high maintenance women) high expactations: take me to a holiday or buy expensive things. And what they give on return… themselves… or even nothing. Girl why you behave like a prostitute? Love is an investment so you have to give a real value of return to your loved one (not just your body). You have to make steps too to get your relationship alive long.
I am really glad that I have found my other half, my beloved hubby, even we do not spend a lot of time together and he do have bad habits, when we are together we try to spend valued time. Of course sometimes it is really great to have a time alone or with friends, but we still do at least 2 or 3 rendez-vous out of flat a month. And nothing better than waking up to the smell of the morning coffee with him. So it is a really good feeling when both of you works on the relationship but leaving the personal space.
I hope you enjoyed this little note, write your comments below.